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Thursday, July 15, 2010

Is it they way it is...

Why is it so that when two people meet, whose frequency match, they enjoy together and have such a nice time. Initially they talk their hearts out, hang out together, laugh have fun.
One fine day you realize that you know each other so well that you know when the other person is gonna do what. How is he/she gonna react to your talks. It is then you even start taking each other for granted. The way you used to care for each other diminishes. You even sometimes start taking benefit from each others weaknesses.

Just then you realize that a tipping point has arrived.

This is when slowly and steadily the honeymoon period comes to an end. At a point of time when your spaces intersect so much that you almost become inseparable. And suddenly this makes you feel choked. You try to pull off your space now from the amalgamation of the combined spaces. This may not be so easy now. May be somehow you do not even want this to happen.

Why does this all happen? I've experienced this with so many people who crossed my life. Still this happens and I do not learn from my mistakes even.

Is this the way things happen naturally? Does it happen with people in general - do not know.
May be i'll find an answer someday.

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